Dating violence programs schools
My students use the tools to become independent problem solvers”, Grade 4 teacher, Benton.
Connecting to Me is a program presented to middle school students about self esteem and how it affects their decisions especially in regard to relationships.
What they leave unsaid is this: “Maybe then I wouldn’t have ended up being arrested for domestic violence assault.” Family Violence Project has provided local high schools with information and resources about dating violence in a program that has grown by leaps and bounds over the past 20 years . Unhealthy, abusive or violent relationships can cause short-term and long-term negative effects on developing teens.
Victims of teen dating violence are more likely to do poorly in school, attempt suicide and report binge drinking, They are also more likely to become victims or abusers.
Violence is a learned behavior and we know that some of these teens are witnessing domestic violence in their homes.
Boys learn to believe they have the right to use violent behaviors, and young girls learn to believe that it’s just part of being a couple.
This program helps kids identify their feelings and communicate them in a healthy non-violent way.
“After the presentation of Respectful Connections, students are better able to identify their feelings and express them by using “I” statements which encourages less of the blame game and finger pointing and allows the students to get to the real issues and get them solved.
Hands Are Not For Hitting, presented to grades 1-3, speaks to the younger kids about anger and their choice of behaviors.It took me years to even entertain the thought that I was a victim.Someone else having power and control over me seemed normal: It was ALWAYS my fault.Respectful Connections, for grades 4-6 helps the kids think about the types of friendships they would like to have.It explains the importance of empathy and what to do if a friend or peer says or does something that makes you uncomfortable and offends you.